bloodangel82

I don't think you understand where i am comming from. You don't need to defend yourself. It was a different makeup and it seemed ppl were a little frustrated. U are the strongest tank, waragle can't stay and we neede 3 tanks so we either use a weaker tank or a weaker healer. It just seems that you need to do it all, it doesn't need to all rest on ur shoulders. you are under a lot of pressure i understand that there is A LOT of work that goes into this and most ppl don't want to bother. You never came out and said that he was a horrible tank no i was just trying to tell u and clerify what he was talking about because he is still trying to generalize and that wouldn't help you out at all. Im sorry if you think that this is a direct assult to you it isn't; he had a bad week and applied to guilds because he didn't feel comfortable talking to you. I just wanted to clear the air since ppl feel that they need to make comments like the ones Dulcina made. I wanted u to understand what the neandrathal cannot express, and to let u know i think it was sort of an over reaction and im entitled to that opinion. Especially since yeah you took him to talk but he's not the kind of person who would even stand up for himself. He didn't name any names, he didn't make any real nasty comments. He was extreamly pissed at u serenitty and he didn't once vent that in his app that would in my opninion been a dismissal. But hey im just a little warlock. Yea you were leading raid and shiki was there since i have been in FP but beyond putting this together and directing ppl there wasn't a real sense of leadership that has only been in the last week where u really shone as a leader. But when your frustrated im getting out the way. (or not i like to poke rabid dogs). Plz don't take my last post as negative it was nothing of the sort. And i don't want this to be a stupid little argument. Its done its over were gone. Have fun and thnx for all the fish. And to ask a stupid question....How can u even say that were not banned fom the guild? If you feel that it was such an insult that we were booted. I don't know why you would even want to say something like that. Regardless its been fun. ~Sara

Welllll...seeing as i usually am the quite one i get to say my piece right. I think that asking us (well maybe not us directly) to leave was a little extensive. Thorughout the whole coversation between the 4 of you that i was privie to no one i mean NO ONE asked stompy why. The comment wasn't slander or anything it was a comment about "poor" leader ship which isn't necessarily a horribal thing. First, I will explain y stompy was upset. It was last weeks raid when serenitty needed to heal on her shammy. Well there were other healers availiable ie stompy's shammy, hunts druid( hunt was hinting very strongly he wanted to heal) Serenitty the stongest tank in the guild insisted she needed to heal. Everyone does things a little bit differently but through the entire raid little comments of "this is y i don't pull like this" or "we need a strong tank" stupid little comments you want to talk about a slap in the face? There were a few other comments that i can not remember word for word but it upset him greatly. ( It may have been his time of month idk ) but he was upset, those underhanded comments rather than laying the smack down in public or extending a helping hand isn't possitive. Yelling at people or helping are where u WANT to be but in the midst of whiping a few times frustration happens and stupid things are said. Stompy didn't want to start an argument or anything like that so he decided to apply else where over the weekend. I didn't really want to leave FP but he is my hubby and where he goes i go (usually). Now this brings us up to what happened after the applications. We talked we decieded to stay due to the meeting that was had on tuesday. The guild meeting was an excelent idea and u should continue having them they will keep your moral up. I am very upset that it came to this but as much as what stompy did wasn't "right" in your eyes (he didn't want to single anyone out so he generalized the statement) There wasn't a strong scence of leadership. I think you guys are all great but that meeting was the first time that i really saw "great" leadership. As far as Dulcina's comments yea you have to deal with people telling you what to do but the underhanded condecending comments are unwarented. I know after all the talking that stompy and I did after the weekend our confidence was renewed and he was truely upset that he was asked to leave. I hope that everyone learns soemthing from this whole ordeal i know that stompy did ( he thinks he might be a little oversensitive sometimes) but also try to ask y not just get hurt by a stupid comment and making rash descions. You guys were like a home and i know he really regrets having to leave it. best wishes to all of you i will REALLY miss u guys!! ~Sara